
How to Get Rid of a Roommate Legally
By: ROS Team
If you’re reading this, you’re probably not having the best time with your roommate. It’s a bummer when things don’t work out, especially when you thought that you could work it out.
So what’s the deal? Before you can even think about how to handle this situation, you got to figure out what’s causing the drama. Are they being loud and obnoxious? Do they take your stuff without permission? Are they straight-up rude to other people in the house?
Once you’ve nailed down the problem, it’ll be way easier to come up with a fix that works for everyone involved. And trust me, you wanna nip this in the bud ASAP. Nobody likes living in a toxic environment.
Determine The Cause Of The Problem
It’s important to determine the cause of the problem. This will help you understand how to move forward and what steps you need to take next.
- What is causing your roommate problems?
- How long has this been going on?
- How has it affected you and other members of your household? Do they feel unsafe as a result of your roommate’s actions/behavior, or do they just not like him/her very much (that’s okay, too!)?
Meet With Your Roommate To Discuss The Issue
The first step in getting rid of your roommate is to meet with them. This should be done in person, preferably at a location that’s not the apartment itself (in case things get heated).
Try to choose a time when neither of you is busy or stressed out – the last thing you want is for this meeting to turn into an argument about who hasn’t been doing their share of dishes.

Try And Negotiate With Your Roommate
You should try and negotiate with your roommate. This can be a difficult process, but it’s important to remember that you’re both in this together. You don’t want to burn bridges or make enemies in the process of finding a new place to live.
Also, if they are willing to compromise with you and find common ground on certain points, then it will make moving out much easier later on!
Make sure that when negotiating with your roommate(s), don’t let emotions get in the way of making rational decisions.
You may want revenge because they left food out all night or broke one of your favorite dishes; however, those things aren’t worth losing over, so try not to let them get under your skin too much!
Focus on what matters most: finding an amicable solution that works best for both parties involved without causing unnecessary drama.
Write Down Your Complaints In Detail
You need to have a detailed list of all your roommate’s bad habits. This will help you prove that the situation is intolerable, and it will make it easier for you to work through your grievances with them.
Write down each problem as specifically as possible. For example: “My room is constantly covered in dirty dishes.”
Write down how you feel about that problem. For example: “I am angry that my room is constantly covered in dirty dishes.”

Write down how your roommate responded when you asked them to stop doing whatever they were doing that bothered or annoyed you (or if they didn’t respond at all). For example: “She just shrugged her shoulders and said, ‘Sorry.'” Or maybe she came back with some excuse why she couldn’t stop what she was doing – maybe she had family coming over soon or something like that?
Either way, write down what happened so that later on, if there’s any dispute between the two of you about whether or not this conversation ever took place (and, therefore, whether or not any promises were made), there’s proof from both sides available for review by a judge who might need clarification before making his decision regarding things like custody arrangements for pets/children, etc.
Involve Your Landlord Or Property Manager
If you and your roommate are having problems, it’s important that you involve the landlord or property manager as soon as possible. They can help mediate disputes and make sure that everyone follows legal procedures.
If a dispute between tenants goes unresolved, then it may be necessary for a landlord or property manager to take steps such as evicting one party from the rental unit (if they are not following their lease terms) or filing for court orders.
Seek Legal Assistance
If you are having trouble with your roommate, it is best to seek legal assistance. While mediation can be a good option for some, it’s not always the best way to resolve disputes between roommates.
If one of you has threatened or harassed the other, then mediation probably won’t work very well because emotions will likely get in the way of rational discussion. Instead, an attorney can help by giving each party an objective perspective on their situation and recommending solutions based on applicable laws and regulations that may apply in your state or country.

You Have Rights And Options When It Comes To Solving A Difficult Roommate Situation
You have rights and options when it comes to solving a difficult roommate situation. But you also have responsibilities, so it’s important that you try to solve the problem yourself before going to court.
You can get help from a mediator or lawyer, who can help both parties come up with ways to keep living together peacefully until one or both of them move out permanently (or until one party gives in).
You might also be able to ask for a rent abatement – in other words, reducing your monthly rent payment by some amount while the issue is being resolved. This would give both sides time without having too much financial pressure on either party while they work out their differences; however, this option is only available if there are valid reasons why both roommates cannot live together normally anymore (for instance: if one roommate has violated their lease agreement).
Final Thoughts
We hope this article has helped you understand the legal options available to you if your roommate is causing a problem. Remember, it’s important that you take action quickly and with care.
The most effective way to solve a difficult situation is by meeting with your landlord or property manager as soon as possible so they can help mediate between both parties involved in the conflict.
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